Looking outside for desirable things –
day dreaming about Caribbean beaches and sleek sports cars –
thinking about what could happen in the future – or what could have happened in the past.
We indulge ourselves in fantasy.
But what if we focused on making the things we have better, instead of thinking about far away places? Things like our relationships with other people, our daily crafts, and the way in which we go about our lives.
Just like the late Chairman Deng Xiaoping said: we must “cross the river by feeling the stones (摸着石头过河).”